Has anyone ever heard the analogy opposites do attract. Rather it be between the insignificance in friends that don’t love like. The significance of an individual who would move mountains. Just to get to one’s heart, stopping at nothing until they’ve accomplished the unaccomplishments. That lie beneath the soul of another, surrounding their big and beautiful heart. Looking into the eyes of another and noticing all the pain behind them. Almost like their eyes tell a tall tale, of their disadvantages. They’ve encountered over the years prior, wanting so insanely bad to fix their flaws and/or qualms, that they have sadly accepted in a place of permanence.
Finding it incredibly unfortunate that they feel these emotions, but instead of focusing on their emotional aspects. They turn towards by thinking how amazing it is to have the ability to see beyond a pretty color. And deep into the silenced soul, who just wants and/or desires the imagery of loving. An individual fully, not half assed, not 50 out of 100, but completely. By showing them that instead of pulling that wonderful 180. One shows the other how to pull a full 360. Making them believe in their flaws, qualms, and/or imperfections. That they as the hurting individual can’t seem to see passed. Are in fact what attracts one to the other for the simple fact. That while being strangely similar, they are exceedingly opposite. Keeping in mind that there are billions of people in this world, but none are as remarkable and as unique as them.
By keeping in mind that during one’s findings there will be situated instances that arise, that test the pair as a whole. Seeing if their relation in which they’ve built can handle an horrific storm. Although they’ve just built their foundation, storms fluster in at the worst of times. Showing one another just what the other is capable of. Noticing exactly how the other handles under pressure, and how they handle their emotions. Rather it be filled with anger, laughter, or sadness. Still baring with the factors of loving them through the hardest hurdles. Creating obstacles within each other and overcoming them together.
Two broken souls mending themselves, through their need for each other. Taking the good with the bad, and acknowledging that Rome wasn’t built in a day. Also acknowledging the factor that plays a huge role, which is the significant want that the other pulls. Where one leads and the other follows, showing them a clear path of futuristic goals. Aligning them to focus on the positivities, instead of the negativities that may arise. Arising through their way of living, their way of thinking, and/or the distinct problems that may still exists and need work. Gradually seeing passed them and focusing on what exactly molds them as a person. Taking all their beauties and accepting their uglies.
When building with someone it takes work, you’re not always going to agree with one another and that’s okay. But what isn’t okay is opening the realms of someone’s sacredness and bashing their honesty. By re-routing one’s decision to change to be whomever they want them to be. Creating a robotic like individual to act, speak, or become the other’s perfect dream boy and/or dream girl. It isn’t fair that interests begin to change. Between parties because of the other’s ignorance. Ignorance in their arrogant behavior to see someone for who they are. Not for who they were, and sticking closely to see whom they have yet to become. Raising their confidence into realizing that the past is the past, the now is now, and that the future has yet to come. Focusing on the define recognitions of the now so their future is well prepared. Prepared because the proper pickings will allow the pair to make their future together. A prized possession that they’ve learned to build overtime. Through all their imperfect imperfections, loving each and every one of them. Cause they’ve in fact created a beautiful bond, displaying each other to flourish into. The most beautiful souls for themselves on the inside as well as the outside. Growing up with the opposed particulars that one refuses to allow to ruin. By grounding themselves and their loved one and creating their very own fairy tale.

BY: k.L♡