Loving the self of one is by far the hardest love to acquire, being that one is the most trying on themselves first and foremost. Before logically being able to love any other individual, its incredibly difficult. For one to accept their own qualms and/or flaws. To be able to see passed their inconsistencies, their downfalls, and importantly their imperfections. Gradually, picking themselves out piece by piece, stripping their selves completely from their burdens. Scarcely sorting out all they dislike and consciously growing out of them. By one gathering all the negativities and replacing them with all the possible positivity’s, of this remarkable life. Learning from scratch exactly what it entails to love their inner core, their outer shell, and lastly learning to love themselves. For all the enduring beauties that truly define who they are in the inside as well as the outside.
By one’s allowances to dive straight into the issues, they may have with themselves. With one occasionally ascending the prequalification of becoming a well-rounded individual. Seen by the eye’s of their selves as well as being distinguished by others. Their inner ability to have an immediate progression on the developmental state of their success. When they begin jotting down all the pro’s and con’s, that they feel can either use improvements or need to go overall. Displaying in their minds the proper ways to in which to go about loving themselves wholeheartedly. For who they were, who they are, and who they have yet to become.
Accepting the past for what it was, the present for what it is, and the future for what has yet to come. Balancing both present in one hand followed by past in the hand, juggling each to decide what deserves permanence. So that when the future knocks at their door, they were completely prepared. By one acknowledging all they cannot change, fix, or repair. This makes room for the unpretentious growth one may have within. Veraciously, guiding them through their con’s by logically realizing. That all enhancements go thru trail and error standpoints when in search for the thriving mobility of self-love. What comes divinely dismantling is one’s scolding, repugnant behaviors. That one needs to distinguish before any relationship is formed. Especially with those relations that show many signs of significance.
Now, what comes substantially, ambiguous is one allowing themselves to take full responsibility. For themselves and their future. By the allowing ability to believe in their existence. When one takes the time to write down all in which they love about themselves. May it how much they adore their big beautiful eyes, may it be their unique personality, or may it be their own style of wisdom. Either or when one takes a time-out for self-reflection, this opens many unknown doors. Doors that not many know exists. During the evolutionary path one faces, throughout their bold, but brave search to find the right love within. One coming across all the progress that is forming them to have a proper growing mindset. Filled with many probable exhilaration of self-assuredness, followed by the extensive amount of self-confidence. That before any postponements of negligence, one performs an act of self-love. By, subconsciously speaking all they adored dearly of themselves in length. Without having the visionary aspects of reading the pro’s out loud. But by one believing that, that’s in fact whom they truly are. Replacing the I cant’s with I could and the I wont’s with I will’s. Totally pulling a full turnover and acknowledging that although the matter is large it will always be Mind Over Matter.
By one learning all in which slowed down their own growth and finding the root of the issue, instead of one dwelling on all they cannot change. But by focusing on what the certainties of the circumstantial, situational instances. That have caused one a major distraction, allowing themselves to identify what can be fixed and what is not salvageable. While one is in search for the love they crave in another before the love for themselves. They are in fact challenging themselves to learn to love their selves entirely to a greater degree. Love is a feeling, an emotion, a term, and the list goes on. When one shows themselves no love within, its exceedingly unbearably, brutal to fully grasp and acknowledge. A true love for another when one doesn’t even acknowledge how to rapture themselves.
Without the devotion one sees within, it will never be possible because if one doesn’t know how to properly appreciate. The tenderness within, then how do they expect others too. This goes with saying if you don’t show fondness in yourself, how do you possibly expect others too. Especially if you cannot accept the flaws that revolve in yourself, you’ll never be able to accept the qualms of someone else, unless your own are met with first. At the end of the day when it’s all said and done, you fall asleep with yourself, you wake up with yourself, and you die with yourself. There has to come a point when you stop pointing fingers and take responsibility for yourself, your qualms, and most definitely you’re heart.
Loving another will come along as soon as you grasp loving you first, after the completion of self-love is completed. Only than is it feasible to start one’s search. For something or someone more, by providing individuals with smooth terms followed by incredible actions. But remember once you have mastered the love within. You begin to glow a radiant shine, with a magnetic strength guiding you to all things vibrant. Working towards the vibrancy, you’re core contains deep within.
-k.L♡