Has anyone come to the realization that when starting new relations or already formed relations with another, one must make it clear to themselves? That not everyone deserves to know everything there is to one, like who one is, where one lives, or even who the individuals are that one calls friends and/or family. Other’s only know the information one lies in front of them, in that instance one is in fact the true teller here. Without the circumstantial, situated instances that have gone on or do go on, the one in which who lives the tale, does not need to narrate the story.

Almost like setting invisible boundaries for oneself way before any relations are formed, is a great way to acknowledge Self- Care. Invisible boundaries can be set in any if not all relationships this including relations between friends, family, co-workers, and relations of significance in the meaning of love. By placing them securely grounded, will make one feel as though they are a mysterious mystery. That come figure one out types of feeling, kind of like making others wonder; remember less is always more believe it or not. Less headaches, and less unwanted stressors, that can be easily escalated. In one meaningless conversation, can be it for some individuals. Those spiritic memories that jolt through one mind by a certain topic of conversations being had or perhaps a specific genre of music playing in the background. Sooner before later without realization, one begins starting conversations like “One remembers when…” and depending on what historical artifact one digs up will depend on the outcome. Of how one may look at the other after one is done dusting it off.

It becomes strange to think that not all individuals can be trusted, some say somethings are better left unsaid. This is because one can only control how they feel, think, and/or express. So it becomes a mind game so to say and one knows no one is a mind reader, so how will one truly know if it bothers them or not. Especially, if one isn’t the best at expressing their feelings or not. The true factor is that one doesn’t know, but what one will know. Is that there are four common components to be aware of from here on out. They are simple you see, but only if one ingests them properly. For component #1: Make sure one truly knows the other, not like from high school, because lets be real here not everyone is the same as they were in high school. No, I mean like really know someone both parties acknowledging one’s likes, dislikes, and even hates. As far as Component #2 : Do not allow others to meet those closest to one without knowing their true intentions! One may never be too sure of the company their keeping. Now for Component #3: Vibes are crucial here; they are extremely important. If the vibes off, nine times out of ten their vibe probably is off. One should always want to make sure the connection they have with another is pure, innocent, and most importantly true. Lastly Component #4: Be aware of the other parties’ downfalls and/or flaws, something that they feel is indifferent about themselves. That way when the time comes for one to explore their own, one feels more than comfortable to. It will be easier to establish more of an indifferent connection between one with the other. Remember it is easy to fight fire because you may only get burned, now fight with water and one is sure to drown.

By-: k.L<3