In a world filled with resilient people each having a certain type of character it’s harder for others to acknowledge a real one. People everyday lie, cheat, and steal; when under the wonderance of others. Sometimes one may use bad judgement, but bad doesn’t mean that deep down inside that they are overall that horrible character that one may be deceiving one to be. That being as it may , some would fall in the category as particular naïve to all in which they have yet discovered by the initial partner that once formed deviance in the first place.
Sheltered, behind the deceived truths made to become broader with the words of another. Fire fighting fire, as well as water colder than below zero. When around a new group setting and or familiar faced individuals it’s hard not to bring up past situations between one with another. So the other party becomes saturated in the past characteristics that do not match their present one. So other individuals become confused with all their absorbing at that given time. Coming to a particular hypotheses that this person or individuals had been masking who they really are. Assumption after assumption but no actual evidence in which, a puzzling feeling starts to take over leaving the whole mind, body, and soul negative discomfortness.
While, in the finds of getting to know someone one doesn’t know all that one does not wish one to know. Sometimes it takes that special moment in which one is comfortable . It throws off the relation and soon after it spoils out into nothing. When other individuals pretend to know when in all technicalities they are unaware of the factual evidence. Anyone can think but to actually know, now that’s where things get weary. It’s easier to assume you have the knowledge, but that does not mean one doe. Sometimes not knowing certain individuals past is beneficial to one because, maybe the character they once had they outgrew. Maybe one had to overcome plenty of time consuming obstacles to become that unknown character that one has yet to discover on their own. The possibilities are endless when it comes to the misinformed, miscommunicated, and mislead judgement of limited words of another.
With still acknowledging the realities that individuals are going to always want to know more, and more as time goes on. But in all fairness it’s safe to say that with time becomes knowledge. Now as far as other lying, cheating, and or stealing it happens, everyone is guilty of it some point or another. The point of acknowledging one’s “Fuck Up” in a sense with acknowledgement becomes awareness. If one is dealing with a situation and they use bad use judgement does not mean one overall is awful. That just means one did an awful thing, at this time it’s up to the other party involved in which bestowed to decide. If they are going to accept a conversation approach made by the initial party who caused themselves to be dishonest at the time. It’s not right for the other parties looking in to cloud other individuals ears with non factual words. For some reason this is a pattern like situation for the familiared faced individuals showing signs of lying, cheating, and stealing than perhaps take a step back and distance yourself for awhile. Until one is 100% comfortable again and one can start on a brand new slate.
At the end of the day, the only person that one is held accountable for is oneself and the actions that one provides them with. With taking the time to acknowledge the situation around and the parties involved. Sometimes life throws us curve balls and the things that that one spits into the wind, Sometimes it comes back and hits us in the face. That only advice that becomes significant is whatever is meant to be will always be and what ever is not meant to be will flee.

By: Kelsie Lynn♡