Showing a excessive amount of love for another. Sometimes gives others a immediate acknowledgment of insecurities. Running rapidly through their minds. Feeling as though one is not good enough for the other. Looking in a mirrored like image of the other parties capabilities to undermine. The significant others self esteem issues. While being extremely successful, sometimes when one shows another a different way in a “sisterly act”. The individual that is paired with them gets outrageously jealous because the outside party has outshined. Their abilities to conquer the situation at hand themselves. Annoyed with the fact that they had tried every and any which ways to consistently assess the situation. Troubled to find out that the party in which they are paired with isn’t to keen on making those drastic of changes. This leaving the initial individual to feel drained, in the hope’s in getting closer to the party who has showed acts in the past. But for this one its extremely hard for them to see passed themselves, looking for help from the individual that may be a bit closer to them. Soon both parties are acquainted, with getting to know one another. On a friendlier aspect conjoining, one another to show helpful information. To help one see a different outlook from the third party looking in.
Now when it comes to the individuals that come in a pair, sometimes going through an abundance amount of trials and errors. To slowly but surely be on the same path as one another. This path bringing each other to greater blessings that are instore for them in the near future. Sometimes within the couple each suffering from their own downfalls and/or misfortunes. Both becoming aware of them and trying to work passed them. But for some, they run into a sabotage-like scenarios. That the other individual from this coupled pair tend to slack. In terms of both entities each having differential lacks within themselves showing signs in fear; Fear within change, Fear within the future, and Fear within letting go of old toxic habits.
For the reasonings behind introducing the individuals, is to be the third party looking in. Never picking sides, always hearing both sides, and coming to a resolution. When this outside party begins to show the other individuals a different way, a unlike outlook on realities.
During this time for the outside party, watching themselves go through their own trials and errors. Everyday still managing to give good advice to those in need. Accomplishing their very own obstacles, when being involved in the third party positioned, position. They must keep each relation separate, making sure to always show the three L’s Listening, Loyalty, & Love. Sometimes when showing a great amount of the three L’s. Some coupled pair individuals that’s not in relation to the outside party. Sometimes feels overpowered and stepped on in a sense. This leaving them to feel helpless when the third party aspect starts showing the parties diversely, different outlooks. Trying to come to a resolution of a healthy point, a pure innocent connection one feels with another. This creating conflict when the fellow individual isn’t present. Throwing out the negative outlooks and pushing this outside party out of their realm completely. For the significant relation of the two, it had come to a blockage like setting. Every which move being monitored by the eyes of the possessive one. In the beginning the coupled pair seeked the acts of the outside foe. But while one was spotting as a third party the advice got mistaken for having interests in more. A gross like reaction took over in ones mind, thinking how can one even think such a thing. Just because one showed a much more consistent amount of Listening skills, loyalty, and love. Trying to help in different ways than another all for the other individual. To suddenly have insecurities towards them, like one was a threat.
For the individual showing a sisterly love acknowledgement. That further leads them into the structural aspects of honesty. Communicating with another on a totally different level than any other. A brother, sisterly love is extremely powerful and sometimes when one is in relations with others. Those significant others pretend to be oh, so close to one another. Trying to get on a good stand point. From the very beginning. But when the significant other decides to use the loyalty of the outside party to their own advantages. This soon grows tremendously sour.
As far as the outside individual goes, one learned that sometimes being the third party in a group like setting. Only leads relations into the ground, meaning that it’s best for one to keep their knowledge on outlooks to themselves. Given that a majority of individuals seek their insecurities within. Creating an obscene amount of images. Of undocumented scenarios to soon build up in one’s head. Straggling away further from reach, totally dismantling the relation for the future. So its safe to say, that while looking for outside help, thinking it may be helpful. Think again, it only runs the relation into the dirt. Leaving no room for growth, because the coupled pair put their fate in someone else’s hands. The connected two need to be aware that in every war there’s struggles and triumphs. One, or in this case the pair in relation. Need to acknowledge that with every struggle comes triumphs. Overseeing any standpoint from a outside parties outlook on things. Being that what may work for one may not work for all. One must focus all their knowledge on how to mend each other. Not push one another further apart. So with keeping that in mind, just know that only the parties impaired with another. Can fix the unfixable, with the right tools in ones pack. Is sure to mend the fools that reside inside those within.
BY-k.L♡