Profound Changes

As one unfolds by picking up the closest pen while grabbing the nearest notebook and begins to write. Many things travel through their mind on topics to bring up and stories to tell, but before one fully allows themselves to do so. They would much rather speak upon things that have made them change; change in terms of learning how to take the proper steps, in the right direction. While still remaining the same in some aspects of who they were, who they already are, and who they have become. With allowing themselves to abundantly explain those exact steps, along with advising others how to do the very same. In this piece one shall begin to list more than a few things they learned for their selves, in the hopes that it shall reach the ears of the right individuals. Who are more than willingly able to be receptive to receiving this new profound knowledge.

1.) One must never water down themselves, to fulfill the needs, wants, and/or desires of others. Especially since we as individuals were not only raised differently but are all tremendously diverse in many if not all aspects of the name. Which means that the way one may be and how they choose to handle situated instances. May be completely incomparable to the way others will choose to address it. Neither of those circumstances should ever result in how one may overall feel, or look back at themselves.

2.) Don’t ever allow oneself to continue to eat at tables that no longer have the same meals as them. The moment one senses that their meals aren’t being held at the highest of cost like all the distinct individuals whom are parted between seats in the same settings as them. Is in that very instant that one must immediately remove themselves from that exact table and search for a new one. How one sees it is, why should one settle for a slice of cheap cake when everyone else is overly devouring the most profound slice of cheesecake!

3.) Always remember the most successful people who succeed are the one’s who chase their own success. No matter how many times life may knock them down, they must always prompt themselves to get back up and keep trying. The only one who will consistently be rode at the highest of standpoints, is in fact the one who is the toughest on themselves. That precise individual who will fully acknowledge this, will be the exact party who seeks harder when seeking major results!

4.) There will infallibly be individuals who pretend to clap for others when there is an audience. But when the curtains closed and the shows over, its in that very moment their masks begin to fall off. Showing the most ugliest of features, because now they have thrown out their tickets. Instead of keeping them as a fun memorable event, they return home, and behind close doors. They are solely unhappy with themselves and the way their lives have played out that now they are alone. With not being able to fully allow themselves to steer passed their selves because it’s easier for them to hate instead of adore, love, or even cherish the show they just encountered. That slowly those exact individuals who showed much liking to the show and clapped are the same one’s who are not only hoping but are praying that one shall fail. By exploiting to others closest to them, all their wishes of the sort.

5.) Responsibilities will without exception overpower one’s dreams, it’s only when one may make the distinct decision. To incorporate their dreams in with their responsibilities. Turning every imaginative wish to become their overall living reality. In this world the options of basing all that one has dreamt about daily can sooner before later become one’s life. Just as long as the proper steps are being taken, as well as measures it will take to get there. Rather it be by taking a couple steps back and leaving their dreams on the backburner for awhile, and returning with better ideas. On how to distinguish themselves fully for the future, may that be with acquiring more experience by living their life, and also taken care of all matters that present themselves first. More or less revisiting their intellection, at a later time by providing themselves with the proper tools to continue. Slowly but surely returning at a slowed pace than previously, not giving up or giving in to any options that do not serve their greatest abilities to take on both; both responsibilities as well as dreams.

6.) Just like a puzzle, when something is broken don’t be timid to picking up every shattered piece before making that decision to just throw it away completely. But try molding it into a bit more of a much needed manufactured work of art. To every mess there is an even better clean up. With holding a large amount of patience in one hand and an even larger amount of perseverance in the other. That despite the prior difficulties and vastly delay, a recreation of something once built for beauty; is and will always be better fixed than lost forever!

7.) As one reaches a certain point in their life, friendships sooner before later seem crucially hard to acquire. While early stages throughout life there will always be many groups, that portray themselves to not only be worthy of your presence but also attempt to prove their selves to be significant, real, and loyal. But the truest form of friendship doesn’t come from a place with labeled adjectives. Just like the one’s listed in the sentences above no, they come from a great amount of character. Who they are as individuals, how they act behind closed doors as well as one’s that are held wide open, and most importantly how they continue to boost one up on the hardest days to stand up straight. The one’s who consistently don’t need any questioning, clarification, or even as simple as a request. Individuals who share similarities, as well as positivity’s when all one would rather do is solely sink into the quickest of sands. These are the one’s worth every broken path that one may or may not have traveled down facing many tears over, because if those tears didn’t fall and choices weren’t decided. Those exact individuals would have never been able to be found!

8.) Does one remember playing in just about all sandboxes at the park as a kid, almost demanding their parents that they must go in there and play? Well as one gets into their adult stages there is many ways this can be interrupted but the one that stands at its highest for a majority of individuals. Is when allowing themselves to foolishly play in sandboxes they aren’t meant to play in and not taken all aspects of the triangle into consideration. They eventually find themselves showing up to those exact parks and the sandboxes being removed because of a infestation of way too many bugs. Now, as a growing adult one must make a justifiable decision if they will allow their children to have those identical sandboxes in their own backyards. By still taking into much consideration the same reasons for why parks removed them in the first place. But also understanding that one as a parent doesn’t want to deprive their children of the pleasure of exploring in the sand while also imagining all the tools. That they as a parent have learned when playing too much in them. It all consequently falls upon the one who will either be paying for it later or building it for them. The choice is held beneath the hands of the one who wishes to explore.

By: Kelsie Lynn